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My September 11th Story: In Memory of Lisa Frost

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LIZ DELLA CROCE

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In loving memory of my friend and former classmate at Boston University, Lisa Frost, who lost her life at 22 when United Airlines Flight 175 slammed into the South Tower of the World Trade Center on Sept. 11, 2001.

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On September 11th, 2001, I was starting my senior year of college attending Boston University’s School of Hospitality Administration. It was a beautiful Tuesday morning – clear skies full of sunshine and a nice warm breeze. On my walk to Nutrition Sciences that morning I stopped at the student food court to grab a Starbucks for class.

That was the last normal thing that took place on September 11th, 2001. From the minute I walked in the door, I knew something wasn’t right. Crowds and crowds of students were huddled around the television screens throughout the building. A normally loud building was suddenly silent as everyone was glued to the television.

When I whispered to someone asking what was going on all I heard was, “The World Trade Towers have fallen down.” To be 100% honest, at that moment, I wasn’t even sure what they were talking about as I was more familiar with the much smaller world trade tower in Boston than the twin towers in NYC.

Class went on as normal. I remember the professor acknowledging the crisis but stating that she wanted to continue on as normal as possible. In hindsight, I’m glad she gave us the gift of a few more normal hours.

The rest of the day is a bit of a blur until I received the phone call I will never forget from my friend and fellow hospitality student, Estee. When I picked up the phone she blurted “Lisa was on the 2nd plane. Lisa was on the 2nd plane that hit the World Trade Center.”

Lisa Frost

I collapsed on my bed in my apartment located on the 17th floor of a building overlooking the Boston skyline. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. Immediately I recalled the email Lisa sent me just days prior with the sentence “I will email you when I get to California on Tuesday.”

Lisa never got to California on Tuesday. Lisa’s parents never got to greet her at the airport. Lisa’s boyfriend never got to welcome her back. Lisa’s best friend never got a roommate in the apartment they had leased for the new year in San Francisco.

Lisa Frost Pin

Lisa Frost was 22 years old when she boarded the plane to move back home after graduating from Boston University with a dual major in Hospitality Administration and Communications. She was the speaker of her class and one year ahead of me. She was my mentor in every shape of the word. In fact, when I was speaker of my class the following year, her parents came to show support.

Lisa embodied enthusiasm, hard work, and warmth. Her smile lit up every room she entered. She was incredibly smart, hugely talented, and highly motivated.

I think of Lisa all year round. She would have been in her 40’s by now, and I know she would be doing tremendous things with her life. I miss her every day.

To read more about Lisa, here are a few obituaries:

Rancho Family Honors Daughter Lost on 9/11Remembering Lisa Frost and On 9/11, a Father’s Reminder of His Daughter


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107 responses to “My September 11th Story: In Memory of Lisa Frost”

  1. Wendi Avatar
    Wendi

    Lisa was my cousin. We have all wondered what she would have accomplished. Thank you for sharing this. She was truly an amazing person.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      I miss Lisa today and every day! I often think about where and what she would be doing today. Sending lots of love and prayers to Lisa’s entire family! Thank you for writing.

  2. Tami Avatar
    Tami

    I share Lisa’s button on Facebook every year that we will never forget. My husband and I with our 9 month old daughter met Melanie and Tom Frost about 20 days after 9/11 in Boston. They were there for a Memorial service. Tom told us that he hasn’t seen his wife smile until she saw our daughter kicking in the hotel pool. An hour or so later the concierge delivered her button with a hand written letter from her father. We cherish this memento and story. Thank you for sharing your memory.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Wow! What a story!! I think of Tom and Melanie often. Thank you so much for helping keep Lisa’s memory alive.

  3. Reina Joulain Avatar
    Reina Joulain

    Hi Liz, Lisa was my Aunt Maggie’s friend .I’ve heard my teachers at school talk about her and my family. Every year on her birthday i go and see her memorial.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Hi Reina, Thank you so much for writing. Lisa was incredible – thank you for keeping her memory alive. I miss her dearly.

  4. Stephen Aloia Avatar
    Stephen Aloia

    Hello Liz,
    This is such a nice tribute to a wonderful person. Although I never had the honor of knowing Lisa personally, I grew up in her neighboring town and I have friends who knew her in high school. From what I hear she was such an amazing, intelligent, and positive human being. I can only imagine the pain you felt on that day 19 years ago. Every 9/11 I think of her and pay some kind of respect. You are right, I am sure she would be doing great things in life today had she not boarded that flight. The world needs more people like her. Again, very nice tribute!

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for sharing your memory of Lisa, Stephen.

    2. Unknown Avatar
      Unknown

      What a sad story. While it’s sad Lisa died that day. However a day will come you go to heaven and Lisa will look out distance and run over to you and you girls will never separated again when that happens

  5. Dianne M Currie Avatar
    Dianne M Currie

    Hello Liz, I am of course thinking of Lisa today, as I often do, and I came across this site with my comment you posted in 2018. It’s wonderful that you are committed to keeping Lisa’s memory alive. We often hear that we will never forget, and you are helping others with that promise. I think it’s especially important for young people to see specific memories shared by others. Wishing you the best.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for this kind note, Dianne. I appreciate you reaching out. I miss Lisa daily.

  6. Felicia Watkins Avatar
    Felicia Watkins

    Hi Liz,

    Thank you for sharing your memories of Lisa. I was a teacher at her high school. Lisa was the Key Club President and I was the advisor, she volunteered many times all alone because she wanted to make her community better. When I saw her name across the bottom of the screen the evening of 9/11, I was devastated and reached out to another teacher friend to confirm it was “our” Lisa. A couple years later, I ran my first half marathon. Someone was there with a sign with Lisa’s name on it. I cried for the last mile. She was an amazing person. Thank you for writing about her as you did. I will never forget her.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Hi Felicia, Thank you so much for your note. I’m so glad you found this tribute to Lisa. I miss her and think of her constantly. She will never be forgotten.

  7. pamela frost Avatar
    pamela frost

    My husband David Frost was Lisa’s cousin. I remember him talking about her growing up. David has passed away november 2009. I still now remember him speaking of her

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for writing Pamela. I think of Lisa every day.

  8. Dianne Currie Avatar
    Dianne Currie

    Hello, Liz,
    You are a truly wonderful friend, and I am sure Lisa would be very grateful for your sharing about her life. My daughter was in Lisa’s graduating class at BU. Although my daughter did not know Lisa, I have kept Lisa in my thoughts and prayers since I first saw her beautiful face on the news in 2001. She is one of my links to never forget the many wonderful people we lost that day. I also think of Lisa’s family and friends and wish the best for all of you with warmest regards.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Hi Dianne, Thank you so much for your note. It warms my heart to hear you think of Lisa and her family often as I do as well. What a small world that your daughter was in her graduating class. Thank you again for writing.

  9. Paul A. Avatar
    Paul A.

    Hello, Liz. What a wonderful tribute to Lisa. She had worked in our company in Laguna Hills,CA that summer, or perhaps it was the summer before. My memory has quiet faded now.
    However, I have a young friend who said that he was only in 3rd grade then when the teacher put on the TV in their classroom and no one really knew exactly what that attack meant.
    I told him what it meant to me and that Lisa Frost was on that plane.
    To your friend, Lisa.
    Never forget.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for reading and sharing Paul. Lisa will always be missed and I think of her almost daily.

    2. Len Avatar
      Len

      My daughter Amy attended St John’s grammar school with Lisa. It was a very sad day for the community of Rancho Santa Margarita. Her dad carries on her passion for the food bank she volunteered for. My wife led the Santa Margarita Catholic Hogh charity auction where we had truckload of goods donated for the theme that year (New Orleans) where we had two pickup loads of canned goods, Zattaran rice and beans and lots of famous meats to go to her charity. Her dad Tom told us why he does this. We let him know Alisa was a classmate in grammar school with my daughter. Very saf

      1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
        Liz DellaCroce

        Thank you so much for writing in Paul. This makes me so happy to hear. I would love to get in touch with her dad one of these days somehow. This makes my heart warm. Thank you again.

  10. Goutam yadav Avatar
    Goutam yadav

    It Makes Me Cry Every Single Day For the loss Of Such Sweet Caring Girl, Everyday I Used To See Her Photo And pray For Her Soul, She Deserved To Live, So Sad, I Wish I could there On The Plane With Her And try to Stop The Terrorists, so sad, Thank you for Sharing

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for reading!

  11. Nikki H Avatar
    Nikki H

    I would like to add that I think it is amazing that Lisa’s airline miles card was found.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Isn’t it amazing? So incredible that it didn’t melt.

  12. Nikki H Avatar
    Nikki H

    I am so sorry for the loss of your friend. What a loving tribute to your Lisa. I’m sending you hugs and prayers on this most difficult day.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for reading and for your kind words- it means a lot.

  13. Amy Avatar
    Amy

    I was at BU that day too – perhaps around some of the same TVs. While I never met Lisa, I was the advisor to her best friend that you mentioned. That day, I stepped out of my role as an advisor to be a triage counselor, hand holder, and literal shoulder to cry on. I attended a couple memorial gatherings that month for Lisa. This is a beautiful piece and really brought me right back to it all. As I did then, I still now offer my condolences to all who knew her. There is no doubt a bright and shining light was put out far too soon 14 years ago today.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Wow!! What a small world! Thank you so much for sharing your story and letting me know. It is comforting to know how many others remember Lisa as well.

  14. Jesse Avatar
    Jesse

    Thanks for writing this. Lisa was one of my first friends freshman year (same floor Warren Towers). I still remember seeing her name across the ticker on Sept. 12 and the shock and horror I felt. It crushes me to think of all of the amazing things we lost that she would have achieved because of how caring, driven, and passionate Lisa was.

    Hugs and Prayers to you, her family, Jan, and so many of the rest of us who were blessed to have known her and been touched by her.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Oh my goodness that is crazy Jesse that you met at Warren Towers. Thank you so much for writing – it is comforting to hear from others who knew Lisa.

  15. Caroline @ Caroline Kaufman Nutrition Avatar
    Caroline @ Caroline Kaufman Nutrition

    It makes me so sad to read this, but I know it’s so important to remember the lives of those lost that day, and send extra love to those who loved them Thank you for sharing her story, and allowing all of us to support you. xx Sending you warmth and light today.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      I appreciate your kind thoughts Caroline – thank you so much for reading Lisa’s story.

  16. Carrie @ poet in the pantry Avatar
    Carrie @ poet in the pantry

    This is the first time I’ve seen this, Liz. I am so sorry. Lisa memory lives on through you–what a wonderful gift to her.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for reading Carrie.

  17. Beverley Avatar
    Beverley

    I’m so sorry for your loss, your tribute brought tears to my eyes. What a good friend she had in you to remember and play tribute to her in your heart and on your page xoxo

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for reading.

  18. Rachel Avatar
    Rachel

    Sending hugs and comfort on this hard time of the year. Thank you for writing all that you do :)

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much Rachel.

  19. Shawn @ I Wash You Dry Avatar
    Shawn @ I Wash You Dry

    I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. What a wonderful friend you are to remember her this way. I’ll never forget that day. Never.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for reading Shawn. xo

  20. Jennifer Farley Avatar
    Jennifer Farley

    Just reading this for the first time. I have no idea how I missed it last year. I am so sorry for your loss. This is devastating. I still get choked up at least once every year on this day.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      I so appreciate you reading Jennifer – thank you friend!

  21. mary d Avatar
    mary d

    God rest Lisa’s soul and God help her parents. Never to enjoy her and her future children. We must never forget how it happened and who did it & it isn’t over. not by a long shot.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Love you.

  22. Melissa M Avatar
    Melissa M

    Thank you for this story about your friend.
    I was living in South Florida on 9/11/01, and remember everything about that day – including how beautiful the weather was.
    Have you noticed that everyone remarks first about how beautiful the weather was that day? And everyone describes the weather that day as beautiful and glorious.
    I can’t help but wonder if God created that glorious weather to welcome home all of those souls.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      You’re right – everyone always talks about how beautiful the day was that Tuesday morning. When you live in Boston, beautiful September days are not taken for granted. I will never forget the weather!!

  23. Lauren at Keep It Sweet Avatar
    Lauren at Keep It Sweet

    I’m so sorry for the loss of your friend, Liz. Beautiful post about a beautiful person. Such a tragic day to remember.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for reading Lauren!! xo

  24. Michal Nitzan Avatar
    Michal Nitzan

    So sad to read, i’m sure she was a wonderufl person and it’s very hard to think that even one person is like a whole world to another, and when we think of the huge number of victims, 3000, it’s something that we will never truely understnad. It’s always and still is looks like a strange nightmare that day to eveyone around the world..

    Hugs from Israel

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for reading Michal – your words mean a lot!

  25. Susan Avatar
    Susan

    Your story brought me to tears. I don’t think I’ve known anyone before who was so directly affected by that event. My heart goes out to you and to all her other friends and family. As I have been reading this, the heavens are crying heavily for Lisa, too, even here in the usually dry desert.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      I really appreciate you reading this post – thank you so much for helping me carry on Lisa’s legacy!

  26. Amelia Avatar
    Amelia

    What a wonderful tribute to your friend, Liz. I will keep her family in my thoughts this week, as well as all the other families affected by Sep 11th. Sending big hugs.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for your words Amelia!!

  27. Liz Avatar
    Liz

    So very sad. I’m sorry for your friend and all that died that day. I think about very often with sadness. This world is in bad shape. Take care, Liz.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you for reading Liz!

  28. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
    Liz DellaCroce

    Thank you so much for reading Carrian..xoxo

  29. Linda Coleman Avatar
    Linda Coleman

    Beautiful tribute to your friend. Big Hugs to you!

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for reading!

  30. Anne [A Squared] Avatar
    Anne [A Squared]

    Thank you so much for sharing– such a beautiful way to remember your friend.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      I appreciate you reading Anne!

  31. Ashley | CenterCutCook Avatar
    Ashley | CenterCutCook

    This brought tears to my eyes. Thank you so much for sharing. It’s so hard to believe that it’s already been 12 years.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for reading Ashley!!

  32. Catherine @ Rabbit Food For My Bunny Teeth Avatar
    Catherine @ Rabbit Food For My Bunny Teeth

    Your story gave me the chills. I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this beautiful tribute to Lisa!

  33. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
    Liz DellaCroce

    Thank you so much for reading Alyssa…gives me chills too.

  34. Laura @ Family Spice Avatar
    Laura @ Family Spice

    Such a beautiful post. I still cry every year and my heart still breaks remembering that horrible, horrible day. I may not have lost anyone I knew in this terrible tragedy, but I certainly will not forget 9/11 or the stories I read about that day.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for reading, Laura. I know it is such a hard day for so many of us but writing about her helps me keep her memory alive.

  35. Lauren Avatar
    Lauren

    What a beautiful tribute to your friend. Sounds like Lisa was a wonderful person and great friend.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for reading Lauren.

  36. Laurie {SimplyScratch} Avatar
    Laurie {SimplyScratch}

    Such a touching post Liz… I just know she’s smiling down on you everyday. Thank you for sharing this story with us xo

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you Laurie – that means a lot.

  37. Corry Oosterhouse Avatar
    Corry Oosterhouse

    I’m so sorry for your loss and that of Lisa’s family, Liz!! Thanks for telling us about her! Our prayers are with you all!! Corry

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for your kind words Corry!

  38. Roxana | Roxana's Home Baking Avatar
    Roxana | Roxana’s Home Baking

    It’s hard to forget the tragedy that happened years ago and impossible to when someone loved was lost in those moments. Thanks for keeping her memory alive and sharing your story

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for your kind words, I appreciate you reading!

  39. Christina Avatar
    Christina

    This made me cry, Liz. I am so sorry for you and all the “Lisas” and families and friends who continue to suffer due to the events of that day.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      I think about the families all the time, too, Christina. Thank you for reading.

  40. Karin Avatar
    Karin

    Thank you for sharing Lisa’s story with us…very touching and well done. Hugs!

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for reading.

  41. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
    Liz DellaCroce

    Thank you for reading Stephanie – I appreciate it.

  42. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
    Liz DellaCroce

    Thank you so much for reading Megan. xo

  43. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
    Liz DellaCroce

    Thank you for reading Julie – it is never an easy day but I hope writing about her keeps her memory alive.

  44. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
    Liz DellaCroce

    She certainly did. As every year goes by, I can’t believe she was only 22. Thank you for reading Dara.

  45. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
    Liz DellaCroce

    Thank you so much for reading Lauren – I appreciate your sweet words. xo

  46. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
    Liz DellaCroce

    Thank you for reading Megan. It is always a hard day but I feel it’s important to never forget about my friend. xo

  47. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
    Liz DellaCroce

    Thank you friend..your comment brought tears to my eyes.

  48. bonnette Avatar
    bonnette

    For 12 years I’ve been gripped by the individual stories of loss caused by this tragedy. I can’t wrap my head around the enormity of the collective pain. I’m so sorry this touched you so personally but thanks for sharing your story. Its how we all keep their memories alive.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you for your kind words Bonnette. It is a very emotional time and writing my story helps with the pain. Thank you for reading.

  49. Margie Avatar
    Margie

    So very sad. Watching the reading of the names on TV, still amazed at how many good people were lost that day.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      I agree…it is hard to grasp. Thank you for reading.

  50. Jessica of My Baking Heart Avatar
    Jessica of My Baking Heart

    Such a lovely tribute to a beautiful girl. Many hugs to you today, Liz.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you for reading Jessica.

  51. Kelli @ The Corner Kitchen Avatar
    Kelli @ The Corner Kitchen

    Beautifully written and wonderful tribute. Thanks for sharing, Liz. Sending warm thoughts and a hug your way today!

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for reading Kelli.

  52. Gina Avatar
    Gina

    Thanks for sharing, Liz. I’m so sorry this tragedy hits so close for you.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you for your kind words Gina.

  53. Angie Avatar
    Angie

    Beautiful post, Liz. Thinking of you today

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you for reading Angie.

  54. Bev @ Bev Cooks Avatar
    Bev @ Bev Cooks

    <3

  55. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
    Liz DellaCroce

    Thank you for reading Kristen – your words mean a lot.

  56. Joanne @ Fifteen Spatulas Avatar
    Joanne @ Fifteen Spatulas

    Wow, so sorry Liz. It was already a tragedy, but even more so when you think of what so many of these talented people would be doing with their lives now. Thanks for remembering your friend.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      That’s exactly what I think about all the time – what she would be doing with her life right now, how many kids she would have, etc. etc. Counting my blessings.

  57. Sarah @ The Chef Next Door Avatar
    Sarah @ The Chef Next Door

    I’m so sorry for your loss, Liz. This is a beautiful story and I’m so glad you shared it with us.

    1. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
      Liz DellaCroce

      Thank you so much for your kind words.. :)

  58. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
    Liz DellaCroce

    Thank you for reading… xo

  59. Liz DellaCroce Avatar
    Liz DellaCroce

    Thank you for reading…I’m happy you are going to cheer me up today. :) xo